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为什么我们对平凡深怀恐惧?

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蜗小牛按:

我们的文化,近年以各种方式向我们介绍了太多太多的所谓“不平凡”的人士了。

而且,最终往往的,对他们的“不平凡”的评价总是会落在他们的资产和身价上。

这是一种穷怕了的国家经历的文化方面的后遗症。

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“如果在三十岁以前,最迟在三十五岁以前,我还不能使自己脱离平凡,那么我就自杀。”

“可什么又是不平凡呢?”

“比如所有那些成功人士。”展开剩余92%

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